Why the Same Patterns Keep Returning?


Hi dear Reader,

Do you ever wonder why the same patterns keep reappearing in your life or why, despite all the work you’ve done, something still feels stuck?

Maybe you’ve been in therapy.
Maybe you’ve worked with mindset shifts.
Maybe you’ve explored somatic or energy-based healing.

And yet… the pattern hasn’t fully released.

If this resonates, I want you to know that you’re not broken and you’re not doing anything wrong.

I know this terrain intimately. I’ve been on a self-development and healing journey for over 20 years, and for a long time I felt frustrated by how little seemed to change, no matter how much inner work I did.

Back in 2018, I received an energy healing session. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what the healer was working with. I simply knew that something resonated for me and energy shifted.

In 2025, I felt clearly guided by Spirit to enroll in formal Akashic Records training. From the very beginning, it didn’t feel like learning something new. It felt like remembering. My heart opened in ways I hadn’t experienced before, and I touched a depth of unconditional love that profoundly changed how I understand healing.

Months after completing my training, when I opened a box with old notes, I came across something that stopped me. In my notes from that 2018 session, I had written the words “Akashic Records.”

What struck me was that at the time I wrote it, I didn’t actually know what the Akashic Records were. I had recorded the words without having an understanding of them.

Through the Akashic Records, I was finally able to see where certain stuck energies were originating, patterns rooted in scarcity, punishment for using my gifts, and deep isolation. As these energies began to release, new possibilities opened. The future itself started to shift, instead of repeating the same loops over and over again.

This is what becomes possible when we work at the level of the Soul...not just the mind or the body.

If you feel ready to understand your patterns more deeply, and more importantly, if you feel ready to open to a new trajectory for your life, I invite you to book a session with me.

Together, we’ll gently clear your energy field and release old contracts or vows, whether from this lifetime or others, that may be keeping you bound to the past.

You can schedule your session here: SCHEDULE NOW

With love,
Gayane

Gayane Kulikyan, MA

Helping you release stress, so you can find your inner peace and fulfillment.

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